There are different ways to explore One Payoff.
You might begin with the book, watch a Monday Video, join a conversation with others or explore something more personally one-to-one.
Simply begin wherever your curiosity takes you.
THE BOOK
One Payoff: Discover the Hidden Payoff Behind Everything You Do
The book explores how many of the things we pursue, avoid, change or try to control can be connected to the same underlying search for peace of mind.
It can be read as a complete exploration in itself, or simply as a place to begin.
MONDAY VIDEO
A short One Payoff video every Monday — free
Each Monday, I take an ordinary thought, situation or question and spend a few minutes unpacking what may be happening beneath it.
Watch the latest video, or explore previous Monday Unpacks on YouTube.
FREE
THE ONGOING CONVERSATION
Continue exploring together
A live online conversation twice each month for anyone curious about the ideas and implications of One Payoff and interested in exploring them with others.
Each conversation may last up to 60 minutes.
Bring a question, an observation, something happening in your own life, or simply come along and listen.
Any questions, situations or personal examples become the starting point for a shared conversation, as this is a space for exploring the ideas together rather than for individual coaching.
There is no curriculum to keep up with and no particular place you need to have reached.
Early Member: £19 per month
Keep your Early Member rate for as long as your membership remains active.
ONE-TO-ONE CONVERSATIONS
Explore something personally
If there is something you would prefer to explore individually, a One-to-One Conversation offers a confidential space with time to look more closely at a particular question, situation or recurring pattern in your own life.
You don't need to know what is happening beneath it before you come. The conversation begins with whatever is relevant to you and develops from there.
One conversation may be all you need or want. Or you may choose to return after having some time to see what becomes clearer.
90 minutes: £250
WHERE TO BEGIN?
There isn't a right place.
Explore whatever interests you and leave the rest.
There’s nothing you need to join, adopt or believe, and no programme you need to work your way through. You can simply explore One Payoff for yourself.
You certainly don’t need One Payoff in order to be okay.
But if something here has made you curious and you’d like to explore further, by yourself or with others, there are different ways to do that.
Come when you’re curious.
Stay while it’s interesting.
Leave when it isn’t.
Return whenever you’re moved to.
You’re very welcome.
Different routes. One Payoff.
With over 30 years' experience working with people around change, behaviour and emotional wellbeing, I have become increasingly interested in what lies beneath the many different things we struggle with, pursue and try to control.
One Payoff grew out of a simple observation: that beneath many apparently different goals there can be the same underlying hope - to feel okay, relax or experience peace of mind.
My work now is about exploring that pattern with people, whether through the book, online conversations or, from time to time, opportunities to meet and explore together in person.